Love & Sex

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Love itself has nothing to do with sex. 
Tantra has everything to do with love.

I realize this may be confusing since Tantra indeed 
does appear to be all about sex. 

In my Tantra events I use sex as a tool. 
Yet I also do say that sex 
without love is not something 
one should engage in. 

I dance in the arena of Tantric Sex, 
but Tantra itself is not about sex. 

Tantra is about love.

As I have said many times, 
love is not something we do. 
It is a state of consciousness.

We attain this state of consciousness when we totally let go
...when there is no longer any resistance. 

When we are bound by dogma, morality or fear we 
cannot truly attain the love state of consciousness.

It is said that God is love. I agree. 
What I do is allow people to drop 
all barriers and to move into a 
state of love...to know God. 

My definition of God is simple, and cannot be 
explained with words or any dogma.

I do not support any religion, 
and I see religion as 
nonsense, keeping us from pure love.... 
keeping us from God rather than 
bring us closer to a Divine state.

Again, I only use sex as a tool. 
And yes, however, when we are 
in a state of love the sharing of 
biological energy (sex) is ecstatic.

I also speak of unconditional love, 
which, from my perspective, 
is the only definition of love. 

And this does not mean we need 
to copulate with everyone.

While we can have unconditional love for all, 
sex should only be shared when the biological 
energy is in tune with the other. 

This is when the hearts and bodies are totally connected
...are vibrating in harmony together.

It can involve more than two people, 
but it must be authentic, and 
all people involved must be in a state
of unconditional love. 

It is quite difficult to involve more than two people, 
for all three (or more) involved must be in harmony.

Also, while I say that we should not 
engage in sex without love, 
I do not say that we must be together
for months to achieve a state of love consciousness.

For those who have practiced Tantra for some time, 
it can happen in a matter of minutes. Also, one
partner can have enough love energy to fill a room...

I do Tantra events in Russia often, and I have seen and 
felt this with an entire group of 24 people!

And of course do not believe anything I say. 
Just experience...


Blessings & Love,
Swami Nostradamus Virato

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